Is this weird?

Question

So, I honestly feel broken.  I can read smut, watch porn, etc all day and I still don’t get turned on.  I masturbate but, even though I orgasm I usually feel so sick and weird afterwards.  Almost like it’s just a hassle and unpleasant.  I continue to do it because I’m hoping I’ll like it at some point. 
When I masturbate, I can’t imagine anything, I can only close my eyes and just do it.  
I feel weird, broken and I have several other feelings.  
Has anyone experienced this?

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Look up asexuality and see if it resonates with you. There are more people than you might think who experience what you’re describing.
If it doesn’t click for you, then the suggestion to get various hormone levels checked or evaluate any medications you might be taking are good ideas.
I hope you find a way to feel ok with yourself, whatever it is that’s going on. ❤️

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Hey guys!  Thank you all for your suggestions.  I’ve seen my doctor and therapist and I’ve found out this can actually be due to my gender dysphoria.  
And I’ve also looked up asexuality and realized it does also make sense, so I’ve finally figured out my sexuality possibly.

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When you say you feel weird/sick after, do you mean physically or emotionally? Do you feel subconscious shame for what you're doing, and perhaps that's inhibiting you?

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yes. mostly before i lost my virginity but even to this day sometimes i feel disgusted after...

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I feel the same way except Ive never orgasmed

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it could be because of different things like depression or you could be asexual or something.

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I feel you. 
It’s like you’ve taken the words from my mouth. 
I don’t ever feel the need to have sex, nothing does it for me. I’ve never had an orgasm. The thought of sex just makes me feel fed up and bored already - before even doing anything. I never get the feeling of being into it, or enjoying it. 
I don’t know if it’s something which a doctor can ‘fix’ or if it’s something you have to live with. 
I see other people’s amazing sex lives and wish I could be like that. I have no confidence in the bedroom either so that doesn’t help. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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so do u have the urge to want to get turned on, and simply do not?

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do you have blood sugar problems? I can actually get fairly nauseous and feel pretty "limp" after too rogurous sex or too many orgasms in one session. My blood sugar and magnesium levels drop easily causing this. 
Even though I am the woman I am usually asking for a sandwich haha.

Is this weird?

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