I really don't know who to talk to, but it's late, and I just want someone to talk to about this. I've been with my husband for about 10 years now, but married for about 1 1/2 years. Our daughter is 9 months old. we fight a lot, and I just kind of woke up last night, all of a sudden, like I just came out of a fog. We were in the middle of another fight, and it just sort of hit me. We aren't all that happy, even though he says he is doing okay. I think he's just complacent and lazy to the point that staying married is easier than divorce. I, on the other hand, am tired of the put downs, the fighting, and the sadness. As of now, I've moved back in with my parents, but I need to get advice about how to remain strong. I need to take my mind off this.