What should I do????

Adriana

Question. My boyfriend and I were developing pictures from his phone yesterday at Cosco when a picture of some girl in her bra and panties showed up. There were more pictures but my boyfriend hurried and skipped them. I asked him what the hell was that? He told me that was way before me and ge would delete them and he has no idea why he still had those. They're old. So my question is, should I be mad? Because I felt very uncomfortable and didn't really talk much to him after. I wasn't rude to him or anything. I have no idea how I should see this. Help.

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Br

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I would be upset he still had them because my boyfriend goes on his phone all the time. But if you believe him just make sure he deletes them if that will make you feel more comfortable

An

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I would sit down and talk to him and make sure he's being honest with you. But be nice about it and try not act too upset...it will just make him not want to talk about it if he feels you are mad or upset and trying to accuse him or trying to start something.

Ch

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You have every right to be upset. Why would he have pictures of another girl on his phone. That's unacceptable even in a new relationship. Also, if they're so old why did they come up? Were you guys that far back in photos in his phone?

Pe

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If they really are old he’s probably telling the truth saying he just forgot about them

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Adriana • Nov 19, 2017
I really hope so. We just bought a house together and it would really suck if everything was for nothing.

Na

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No? They're old, why does it matter.?When my SO and I first started dating, I uploaded a picture to his laptop (he asked me to for some reason-can't remember why). My dumb ass didn't rename the pic, and when I went to find it, I scrolled past a bunch of nudes from 3+ years ago. I found it more funny than anything, because he was so embarrassed.

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Adriana • Nov 19, 2017
He hurried and got out of them. So I didn't see the dates. But his entire attitude changed. So I'm trying to be calm about the whole thing. I'll keep everybody updated.