Is it normal to not feel connected to your baby when you’re 12 weeks?

I see so many women say how they’re so in love already, feel like a mom now, and everything but I can’t say I feel the same and it makes me sad. I’m super excited and I still can’t believe it finally happened for us. 90% of the time I don’t even feel pregnant and feel like I’m playing pretend planning for everything. Anyone else with me? You can wait to have this baby but right now it just feels fake? Is this normal. It’s so hard to explain my feelings.