Second outbreak

I think I'm having my second out break since diagnosed 2 years ago, I noticed a tear a few days ago...assumed it was from sex, now it's burning but I can't see any blisters? As I'm laying here I'm in pain. I quit taking valtrex after my 5mo was born. I keep reading how the subsequent outbreaks aren't supposed to hurt as bad? Why am I dying from the pain? I'm calling dr tomorrow bc I have a lil discharge too, fingers crossed it's a bad yeast infection and not hsv 🙄🙄🙄

Any home remedies on drying out quickly if it is?