Is he the one?

Question

How did you ladies know your guy was "the one" you wanted to spend the rest of your life with? I've heard "you'll just know".....WELL I have a doctorate in worrying soooooo I'm constantly overthinking simple things. Then I get confused...which leaves me wondering. I'm only 20, and I've only ever ever ever had one boyfriend who I'm currently still seeing. When I ask myself:
-Does he make me happy? Yes
-Am I attracted to him? Absolutely 
-Do I love him? Yes 
But do I even know what love is? Could I be missing out on someone else?? I've never been with anyone else so I start thinking and compare the situation to other things. Do I know what love is? Can it be better than this? Or do I already love someone who makes me happy-why do I need to try other people?

Answer

Hmm. 
 In an honest light, you REALLY will know when the time comes. Its a feeling you wont be familiar with untill your heart experiences it. New light will shine upon you, new ways of feelings towards that right person. The feeling is unexplainable and varies within people; its a mutual occurrence. dont overthink; it ruins the feeling with expectation!

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Well my fiancé and I both mutually hate the world and humans in general so I mean the fact that we both could care less really helps with common interest.
Honestly, ever damn day that man does something that makes me think “how did I get this lucky? How was he on this earth and no one else saw what I see but me?” 
He makes life interesting, we fight and make up. We take responsibility for our actions and learn from each other. We can sit in pure boredom yet not feel that awkward need to do things or say things. 
We just mesh. So I knew because I simply knew. However in life nothing is permanent. When we dated I wondered if I was missing out on something better. When we decided to have a baby, I thought can I co-parent with him if we were to not stay together. And I decided after I figured those things out, that it didn’t have to be forever as long as we respect each other forever. Can you respect him forever. In better or worse?

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Omg I’m going through the same situation! I’ve been with mine for two years and i constantly ask myself what does dating feel like you know going out and meeting someone randomly and building a relationship and if I’m missing on someone else or should I just settle

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I feel the same way! It makes me feel so guilty that I think these thoughts but can’t help it. I’ve been researching (and although I cannot self diagnose) and found that my experience really resonates with Relationship OCD (ROCD). Maybe you are similar.

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I guess you will never know... but in my case I kinda see it clear, but I may be mistaken...
But when a start thinking about the night I meet my boyfriend it just feels right...
I meet my boyfriend in a club randomly through a friends that was trying to find a boyfriend (the typical friend of do you know my friend ....). So the thing is that I saw my boyfriend way before she introduced me to him and I thought hmmm he looks cute. So now I think ... what is the probability of my friend picking a random person that ended up to be the only person I found attractive in the club.... on that time I had known my friend for like two days so she didn’t know much about me or my tastes.
called it destiny, luck or whatever but we still together after 2 years

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