Needs release

Me and my boyfriend have amazing sex all the time but I don’t cum all the time which is ok because it’s still mind blowing. And he usually gets me off later on. But lately he hasn’t even tired to finger me or play with me. We have sex and after he cum he is done. And I haven’t really minded because the sex is amazing but today in hour after we had sex I ask him to play with me and he flat out said no he was to tired. I dont know why but it really hurt my feelings. He usually loves to play with me.