Said my boyfriend...

He works 5days out the week AS DO I.

He gets home around 6 AS DO I.

He lives in an apartment WITH ME.

I know he’s tired when he comes home because he works construction. I’m a private sitter for an elderly woman. We do everything together so I’m up and down left and right every time I’m at work! I’m so exhausted when I go home, yet I still cook, I still clean, I still do all these things for US! I know I don’t have to do these things, but shit I can’t let it get bad around the apartment.

When I ask him to do something ( we kinda have assigned “chores” lol) he’ll make a fuss out of it. It drives me nuts! He says “ I work from early morning to late night! Don’t you think I just wanna come home and relax!” I’m like damn you took the words out my mouth! I always leave and get to work atleast two hours before him! He says at my job I just sit on my ass and relax all day... which is completely wrong!

I washed loads of clothes on my off days yet he made a comment saying “ oh you didn’t fold or put them away” I got so fed up because he also asked me for some shorts I said “ look for em your damn self! And while you’re at it, atleast put your own shit away”.

I don’t understand how you can sit on the couch and everything’s a mess and act like it doesn’t bother you. I can’t relax comfortably unless it’s clean!

Well, another thing is that he has all this work and claims he’s busy or tired yet when someone calls him he drops all things to do whatever it is. But when I just want to put my damn fake ass tree up (that I already have at home), he told me “ I have to make time for that” and I had specifically told him if we can do it on Sunday when he’s off! And he said that.

I’m so annoyed with myself because I’m always making him first when I’m basically just here for convenience it feels like. I know he works hard and this and that but fuck! We don’t go anywhere! When it’s someone else at the drop of a hat he will get up and go.... he says I’m his gf I should understand but wtf is there to understand about that!??that I always come second! 😡😡😡😡👊🏽💢

If we don’t put it up Sunday, im putting it up Monday when he’s at work ( Sunday Monday are my off days) and I’ll take pics with my little puppy under it!

Leaving is out the question, there are other factors going into this but I wanna cut this post short.