Might be paraniod you tell me

so i have these family members that have been trying constantly to separate my boyfriend and i.

they have tried every thing showing me pictures of him with other ppl , telling me he attends double date with them but brings another person.

then they told him that i go out to meet other men , that i bring my exes to my house.

non of that worked

they get angry and made their selves feel better by sitting in groupes and talk about me.

and it just gets to me cause i can feel that its me their talking about .

but come on they both have kids, babies at that i think instead of focusing on my life they should focus on their kids