Scared and not knowing the best

Ellie-Mae • My preemi baby-Ava Summa-Mae born 5/12/17🎀👶🏻..👫matty-baby daddy💏 ....uk England🌏🇬🇧. Bump no.2. Due soon!

So I’m 35 weeks 2 days pregnant,with my first child. Wondering what is the best pain relief?! Heard gas and air makes you throw up,pethadine I’m not sure on as I’ll need more info about that..epidural,I’ve heard that’s good but what are the possible side effects?! I’m so stuck on what one to decide. Anyone out there that can help would be great