8 days late

Still BFN and no sign of AF, have some mild breast tenderness for a few weeks on and off but I get that with AF so it's kind of hard to tell except this feels more of a full tenderness rather than just the nipple area. Went to urgent care to request a lab for blood draw tomorrow, urine said negative of course it was 5 at night and he said there test is sensitive and he highly doubts I would be. Usually a few days before AF I can get some light pink on when pushing up in cervix but this is all just creamy white. So confused 😏