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Okay I’ve been really emotional lately ! I cried all last night and all tonight ! My reason for me being emotional is the fact that my “ Mom in Law “ are at odds ! We was super close , that’s until me and my husband ( her son ) got married ! It all started when she stated that she felt as if I only married my husband for money and that I should have came to her before we got married Which I wanted to do , but my husband told me that he wanted to be the one to tell her our plan of getting married . So I didn’t tell her , I let him tell her and when we got married I told my family right away ! But , I don’t think he did. Which brings us to issue number two , which is her encouraging my husband to adopt her 14 year old daughter so that she could get his GI Bill . And they had been talking about for a while and I found out through his little sister ! So long story short , I told my husband we wouldn’t do that and I also told his mom we couldn’t do that because if we give her the GI Bill our kids would be out of a college fund ! That upset her , it got to the point of no return! Then she asks my husband to allow his sister to move in with us , which I said no too also because we aren’t financially stable to take care of a teen ! That upsets her . I told my husband that he was going to have to talk to her about boundaries and instead of talking to her about the boundaries he just won’t talk to her when she calls , which led her to believe that I’m telling him to not speak to her ! How do I make peace , I don’t want to have a bad relationship with his mom , am I wrong for this ??? I’m feeling like I’m messing up his life ... how do I make this right ????