Divorce

What’s the process for a Divorce? Or whats even the divorce law in Washington State? Been married 2 years and its now more clear than ever that he wants out so ill do him the favor and start the process. Tired of crying, tired of fighting for something he doesn’t want, all he cares about is his daughter and never puts me first!! And my heart really tells me that he and his baby momma have a thing going on but of course he never confirms it. I just had enough and im done!!! All the money we ever had in these 2 years went down the drain. His addicted to gambling, and when its not that he sends $250-$300 every 2 weeks for his daughter in Mexico!!! And when its not that he’s sending money to his dad that is in jail in mexico for committing murder!! So yes we have money problems! But he doesn’t care about being broke! But i am!! We been living since day 1 with his mom and family and i hate it, im ready to have my own space and start a family! But he never cared about what i wanted. His addiction and needs were more important!! We have good jobs and make about $70k a year! And we are broke thankx to him! We only have $6000 saved in the bank and are in debt for about $17k!! But he doesn’t see anything! Everything is my fault according to him. Always saying im the blame for everything, and honestly that is not true!! Help i know if we separate im gonna have to help him pay our debt bcuz its under our names!! But he got us there and i dont find fair of helping!!!!