Does he want another baby?

So my husband had a bad ex who broke his heart and aborted his baby then told him all about it. He didn't even know she was prego. Fastforward 10 years we are happily married and have 2 kids. 1 his bio the other mine from a bad relationship that almost cost me and mini me our lives. He tells me he wants another baby but his attitude and body language tells me he doesn't. He knows I'm not on birth control, and that I want one more. Every time we get intimate he is not there. He is so not there he can't stay hard, no matter what I do. This is the first time we have had this problem other than when he is beyond drunk,

but I don't want him to think we have to have another baby. We are in this together. When I ask him he says yes let's do it, one more. And we get to bed he kisses my forehead, and rolls over and goes to sleep.

Anyone else have this issue? I don't know what to do. Do I give up and get back on birth control, or wait it out. YES I know sex is not everything in a marriage but I REALLY LIKE IT.

And if that means no more babies for me, I hate to say it but I'm ok with that. As long as we can still have the closeness we had. And I don't know about you but there are 2 times I feel the closest to my man. 1. When we are holding each other for no reason then to hold each other.

And when we make love.