Advice

Okay, I usually just read posts, never posting anything about myself. Here’s my attempt!

So, I recently started talking to this guy—who’s very attractive and accomplished—that I’m kind of liking, so far. He seems very sweet and honest, too honest at times. A week ago, he asked me when was the last time I had sex; I told him a year ago (I was in a long distance relationship, so sex was not often. We broke up in November). When I asked him the same question, he told me last night. 😳

I understand honesty, but I was sooo taken back by his response. He’s the same guy, a day before, telling me I’m his girlfriend in his head. But, he felt so comfortable telling me he fucked someone else the night before. I was shocked. Since then, I feel so uneasy opening up to him, but still talking to him.

Maybe I’m blinded by his looks, and I’m trying to ignore the signs of disrespect. Maybe he said it to see my reaction. Maybe the woman he had sex with is also a woman he’s dating. All these maybes. I need to step away from it all.

Side note: We never had sex. He’s 40 years old (10 years older than me), never married, last relationship was over a year ago. There must be something wrong with him.