My husband puts me second...

Ok I know I’m going to sound bratty when I say this but here’s my issue:

My husband is a tattoo artist. He recently got signed off his 2 year apprenticeship... during those two years he was working at his shop full time without pay and he has another part time job (2-3 days a week) and didn’t make much money so I was picking up the slack and taking care of the both of us... I was super supportive even when he would be all stressed from his apprenticeship and took it out on me... now that he’s signed off it’s literally IMPOSSIBLE to get him to tattoo me! I was already working on two half sleeves from a diff artist and he basically made it sound like he wanted to be my only artist so my tattoos would b special sense he knows my tastes. But whenever I make appointment with him to get tattooed he flakes out on me last minute because he gets lazy! Or he cancels on me if another tattoo that he would rather do comes up... it’s been MONTHS of me reminding him and he always has an excuse .... it makes me so bummed! Especially cus I stayed up all night (his shift starts at 1:30 am and it’s now 6am) waiting for him cus he delayed my “appointment” cus some girls came in for walk ins and now he says he’s too tired for me!! If I was any other client he wouldn’t have canceled.... he’s been signed off sense June so he’s had plenty of time to make room for me in his oh so busy “schedule” (he’s not that busy and he has 3 days off during the week but he rather smoke weed and sleep!)