Play fighting

Does play fighting go too far if there is bruises being left ?

Me and my boyfriend were play fighting and he left several bruises on me.

One huge one on my thigh and several on my arms. I️m surprised there isn't one on my face.

But he always talks about smacking me and hitting me. He'll say "you better Act

Right or you know what's up". Or something similar to that. And he condones hitting women. He showed me this video about I️t. And he agreed.