Overall I’m happy for them. They already have a 10 month old. So this year they bought a house, had the baby and got married. Crazy! So we showered them with attention and help for all that. Meanwhile my hubby and I️ were trying for a year, so it was hard. Finally we got pregnant yay, and told them about it. And two weeks later she found out she’s pregnant too!

so it was an accident she said, and she’s upset about “stealing our thunder” and wants us to announce to our parents at Christmas and they won’t. and the way she told me was “i can’t believe were pregnant, it was one time” not “well we decided to try and it happened sooner than we thought”

I can’t help but feel a little upset, it had Finally worked, and boom she’s pregnant without trying and will have hers two weeks after me. but now I just feel sad, maybe I won’t be able to get that special time with my mom to help me, since now there will be another one and for sure she will be exhausted and need more attention than me! Guess it just doesn’t feel as special. Maybe this is the hormones! What do you guys think...I mean I’d never ever say any of this to her. It’s just should I change my attitude, maybe talk to my mom about how I feel once they know about the pregnancy? Woah this got long.. 🙁