I️ need some real help ladies!!!

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and he has never made me orgasm through clitoral stimulation or during sex. Don’t get me wrong he’s great at fingering me and I️ enjoy the sex a lot but it’s time for him to learn. I️ can make myself orgasm but I️t does take a while. I️ need some tips on how to teach him or what he can do to make this work. What are some tips for what he can do with his hands and his tongue. Also, what are some general things that can spice up the bedroom and make I️t sexy and romantic!!! :)