Ok so I'm 28 years old and my husband is 49.. yes I know BIG DIFFERENCE . however we've been together for 10 yrs. we have 3 beautiful kids together and he also has kids from previous relations. Ok so his oldest daughter is 26.. She is D R A M A!! Every time this girl enters my home I swear she rattles my peace of mind!! for the past 10 years I have held everything in me for not kicking this girls ass!!! I know it's his child but man enough is enough! She has gotten her boyfriend arrested and my husband bailed him out.. they never even gave us that money back! recently she got upset at her dad cause he out her in her place about her drinking habit when she has a child .. She decided to talk crap about us to a female from our church.. It got so ugly and everything was spilled ! I have not done one thing to this girl! never ever!! I'm 28 years old and have been more of a mother figure to her then her actually mother which was never In her life.. She recently spoke to my husband and said she wanted to come back home and I'm just like ummm NO!!! I refuse to take one of my children out their comfort because she can't get her life together! She is so dramatic and every time she's here something happens! I feel bad for my husband because that is his child and I will never him in a situations where he has to choose. but I don't want her in my home! Especially not around my kids with her bad nasty habits!!!