Where did the sex go?

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Since we got pregnant my husband and I have had sex probably about 10 times. At 14 weeks, I’m wondering if maybe my husband doesn’t get turned on by me being pregnant? 
I don’t feel desired and I’m the only one who talks about it. It also makes me self conscious and I haven’t even taken a bump pic.😔
 Any other experiences or advice out there ladies? It makes me really sad. I know we want each other. Thank you!

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Some guys just worry about the baby. It probably has nothing to do with you! My husband was the same way, it just freaked him out a little bit.

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I had the same problem earlier in my pregnancy. He wanted it a lot but I didnt. Now, I cant stay off of him lol.

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I've had sex 4 times my whole pregnancy. I'll be 35 weeks on Sunday. totally normal. 😉

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I haven't had sex since week 27....I'm 36+6 now and he's refusing to touch me. I know it's not my size or anything like that, he's just cautious about the baby since we've had some problems with early labor. He says once baby's here and we're both safe and healthy, he'd give me some again lol.                       Maybe your husband, like a lot of men are more afraid of hurting you or baby and it has nothing to do with your attractiveness.

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We haven’t had sex since we conceived 10 weeks ago, but it’s because my husband got sick and has felt like crap since 5 weeks lol. Talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. The thought might freak him out or he might be worried about hurting the baby.

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We are the same! I’m 12 weeks and we’ve had sex prob about 5 times. We used to do it all the time and I have a very high sex drive (and he used to) it’s like he’s lost interest in me
Feel really down about myself just now 😞

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It's totally normal, both with how you're currently feeling and him possibly having a lower sex drive. 
First trimester I was too exhausted from work to even think about sex, we would probably do it once a week to maybe every other week. Didn't get too much better and has gotten more uncomfortable. The only reason we've upped it these past few weeks is because we're trying to get this baby out of here (38w3d).
Be honest and open with your husband and communicate how you feel. Hopefully things get better!

Where did the sex go?

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