Am I overreacting?

Question

So, my husband and I were friends before we were ever together. I would tell him about dates I had and he was even at a party where I hooked up with a guy I was seeing at the time. So fast forward to being a married couple now for a year and ever since we began dating he would make low blow comments about me being a “hoe” in school and other comments of that nature. He’s always called them “jokes” and we have had a few arguments about how that absolutely makes me feel terrible. Especially since when we started dating I would be absolutely honest about everything. Including the people I had been with. I’ll give you an example of the conversation we had tonight in regards to my dog.
He said “you know there’s only one bitch in this house.” -jokingly
And I jokingly said back with a smile “yeah you.” 
“No you I was talking about you since you’re pregnant.”-him
“Well I’m not a dog”-me
“I saw how you were in school.”- him in reference to the guys I’d been with. Only 3, including him, might I add. 
I’m absolutely exhausted with fighting over the fact that comments like these make me feel like scum. He knows this, and in every other aspect he’s an amazing husband. But what do I do? I already have low self esteem, and he met me at one of the lowest points in my life. But it seems like he just loves to throw it in my face that he knows who I’ve been with. What do I do? I guess I’m just trying to make myself feel better and vent but some advice might help.

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My brother has a tactic where if someone says something mean to him (even joking) he will make s sad face and say “wow that was really mean” “ or “that’s really hurtful “ it generally shuts people down right away. Maybe try responding like that next time your hubby says a mean comment

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I don’t think you’re overreacting. What he’s saying is hurtful. He seems to have some issues with your past and might be trying to make himself feel better by saying this to you. 
Whenever my husband says something I find hurtful, I confront him instantly. Without anger I’ll say something like “why would you say that to me?” or “wow, that’s really hurtful, what did I do to deserve that?” I try to say it in a way that shows him my feelings are hurt and that I want a real answer. 
He might not realize your point of view and how much it affects you. If you show him that it hurts you, hopefully he will start to back off and stop. 
It’s taken time and practice. But honestly it has worked well for me. We practically don’t fight anymore and I think that’s because I have forced uncomfortable conversations, without being aggressive or starting a fight. 
I hope this helps.

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Tell him to shut the fuck up then next time. Make him see how much it hurts and stop being nice about it. I'd blow the fuck up, I don't take that kind of disrespect

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Guys just do that sometimes. It’s not that we mean anything by it’s just how we express being playful and I you don’t like it and I feel for ya, but if you’re honestly feeling that low that then tell how you feel, say exactly what you you told in your story about how it’s making you feel and how low you are now because of it and if he does change leave his ass because then he doesn’t doesn’t deserve someone nice as you.

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Yeah my bg said two yhings to me that had made me so mad. I made him even saying it. I didnt do nothing to mean it was more like a pitch with a twist to male sure he got a Bruise and to make sure he doesn't ever say it again to me.

Am I overreacting?

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