gotta love them in laws.. 💀

theyve always been really straight forward people. im fine with that, but there is a line between being straight forward and being an outright jerk.

everyone is entitled to their opinion or concern. but at this point and for awhile now im like Fuckkk off 👋

i have many stories of their behavior but today's a prime example.

they help us babysit most weekends. and every time I get to hear a lecture of some sort. short or not I get to smile and nod.

today I get there and it starts with my older daughter and her recent behavior at school being mean to another kid. so much that my daughter has been kicking another student :( I need advice but his pertained of me whooping my 7 yr olds ass and that she doesn't fear me and neither does my 2 yr old. ( a subject that's been brought up in the past ) and that I shouldn't of just talked to her and waited for my husband come home to address it himself after I did.

then he told me my 2 yr old should be out of pull ups by now and potty trained. to which I agreed but said its kinda hard when were both working fulltime and I only have her during the day 2x a week.. he goes well me and his previous wife had the kids potty trained by 2 and we worked fulltime. why isnt your babysitter doing it.. she is. im not going to force anything I will try my best but we literally have LIMITED babysitters and funds.. so...

then cherry on top he asked me (rudely) why I'm doing a home birth anything can happen and your not gonna make it to a hospital in time. that baby will die. because one of my sister in laws laws just had a baby and the baby swallowed amniotic fluid and almost died..

I get the concern. trust me I know. but this is my choice my decision and I have my reasons.

thanks for the fucking support