Lube?

Does anyone have any suggestions for lube that won’t irritate me? My parts are SO sensitive it’s annoying. Condoms are terrible for me to use but I’m so tired of people bitching about me having unsafe sex. I’ve tried water based and it made me feel like it was burning then felt numb, and I read up about coconut oil but it’s not recommended for women that get infections easily. Also before someone says “Ask your doctor,” I don’t have one because I have no insurance and don’t have a car so I can’t go to a free clinic.