okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about four months and we have sex a lot but it’s very rare for me to have an orgasm. i get close a lot of the times but he doesn’t last long enough for me to actually have one. help??

also!! it seems like i want to have sex way more than he does. maybe it’s because i’m not getting off which makes me hornier but sometimes i’ll just sit in his bed in underwear and he continuously plays video games!! how do i get him to want to have sex with me more?