Should my boyfriend be allowed to hear the heartbeat for the first time with me??

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Long story short me and my boyfriend are quite young for a pregnancy...
I'm 18 and he's 16 about to be 17 so we're not completely 2 years apart so please don't start on the age difference 🙄 we've been together almost 2 years now.
Anyways I just recently came out to my family that I am pregnant and my father isn't necessarily the happiest with my boyfriend and he doesn't want him to go with me today to hear the heartbeat but I think he should because even though my dad may be mad at him right now it is still his baby and he deserves a part of its life🤷🏼‍♀️
We can't just put the sperm back inside my boyfriend so he just needs time to adjust to his little girl growing up.
What would you guys do?!?

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He is the father of this child, he has ALL the right in the world to be there. 
I am all for parents TO BE respected, but in this scenario he( your father) is the grandparent. 
Let the father hear his child’s heartbeat.

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if he and you both are fine with it, then yea why not. if you don't want him to, then no because it's your body.

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I think he should go if you want him to. I would just tell my dad that it’s not his doctors appointment so he doesn’t get to dictate who can go or not.

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Wait, are you still together? Yeah he should go.

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Your dad no longer has a say in your life decisions. Time to cut the umbilical cord pops🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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He definitely should go. Your dad's being a dick. What's done is done.

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Let the poor boy go if he wants. Let’s not start adding to the list of how to get the poor boy to run for the hills with this pregnancy... 
ur dad is livved I’m sure. ur young. ur his baby girl. I found out I was prego at 25 and my daddy wasn’t happy but wasn’t mad he was just like ur having sex hahahaha um no daddy I dont do that at 25 hahahaha 😂 we will always be our daddy’s little girls no matter what age n I’m ok with that hehehe 
Give it Time. This is ur time to shower not just ur family but urself that ur grown and can do this thing called adulting.. it’s not ur dads place to say who goes to what n shit that’s the father of the babies decision let the poor boy decide what he wants to do.. 
Be kind, be easy on yourselves. 
Sending peace vibes ur way n a big hug.

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You Dasia out of line. Your bf has every right to hear the heartbeat of his own child. Dad needs to get in his own lane. You’re an 18 yo mother now. Why is your Dad bossing up on you?

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you are 18, you are an adult, you are pregnant not your dad, tell your das that he is coming and that yoir not discussing it further. Tell him you respect his opinion but it is his opinion and you will be raising this baby with your boyfriend and he will be involved untill you and your boyfriend decide other wise not him. In my opinion your dads just angry stand your ground and when he's not so angry he will probably respect you and your partner more.

Should my boyfriend be allowed to hear the heartbeat for the first time with me??

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