harder with a different gender?

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Sorry, I wasn't sure how to title this. Let me start by saying I'm not pregnant or even trying to be pregnant. I just had my son September 2 and I am definitely not ready for another yet. However, out of curiosity I had a question for some of you moms. If you have one gender for the first kid and the other for your next, is it harder with the second kid? Sorry if it's a silly question, but I am genuinely curious.