So, my relationship with my BFF has been deteriorating since we graduated. We have been the best of friends for years, and I have always been the kind of friend that may not be the most outdriven, but will care of her be by her side unconditionally. I have been depressed and I am naturally an introvert, so it is hard to make plans or stay lively all the time.

I always assumed that she understood that is the way I am, but now that we dont see each other often she found a new best friend. Its infuriating that she no longer makes plans with me or never chats online, yet I see her in pictures and snaps with her new friend. She even tags her in facebook posts regarding best friends or sisters, telling her how much she loves being her friend, when she was always too embarased to tag me before. Whenever we do see each other, she will talk about her BFF and their parties.

It has been hard to hear her when it is difficult enough to step out of my house, eat my meals or sleep at night. I tried talking to her, but I wouldn’t have the courage.

I cant say I am angry at her for being happy, but I dont know if her ditching me that way is fine. I blame myself for being the “boring mom” friend all the time, but is it my fault or hers? And what can I do to save our friendship?