Okay so I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I love him and am very comfortable with him but I’ve been unable to orgasm. He excites me and all but it doesn’t seem to be enough. He’s my first and although I read almost everything I can and I ask for advice, I believe it all comes down to a lack of experience. Reading these, most girls respond by saying “figure out what you like by yourself” but I’ll explain right off the bat that, that makes me uncomfortable. Extremely uncomfortable. I don’t care about other people spending time on themselves, it has no effect on me however the thought of doing that myself makes me feel gross and Ive been very uncomfortable anytime I’ve tried so I need help and advice. I don’t know what to do and I’m becoming discouraged in the bedroom. Any ideas? Thanks ladies💖