I’m a Mum of 2 boys aged 9 & 10, my husband and I found out about 4 weeks ago I’m pregnant again. Back in 2012 I fell pregnant again and he lost it, huge fight, but that ended up me having a miscarriage. This time he wasn’t happy but he didn’t lose it like he did before. when the deed was being done he was, if it happens it happens and he doesn’t think with his head. but now I have no idea what he is feeling, he doesn’t want to talk about it, and tells me not to ask how he is feeling because I’ll get upset and disappointed, until the last few days I think he is slowly accepting it, he has been talking about bump randomly and last night when he grabbed a grope of boob his hand went down and he rubbed my tummy. Is that him accepting this pregnancy? I’m trying not to think about it because I don’t want to get upset. I’m now 9w4d.