So I am In Tears Because I Was Riding My Husband And...

So tonight I was already upset because my husband was already saying fat jokes. He said he was kidding but I know I am fat. I am 5'5" and 175lbs. So I was on top and he was "pounding" from the bottom.. then he gives up amd says he cant get off because I am too heavy. I am just so upset. I have struggled with my weight my whole life.. I just cant quit crying. I guess I just feel ashamed, and ugly, and just idk. Maybe I am over reacting, how would you ladies feel?