My mom called me degrading names

My own mom slut shamed me because I spent Christmas and my birthday with my boyfriend. I was only supposed to stay 2 days but I ended up staying 4 more days because me and him were having fun together and he asked me to stay. When I got back home my own mother started calling me a slut,tramp and a whore just because I staying with my boyfriend. His family had invited me come over for Christmas. My mom said I shouldn’t have took the invite. My own mom broke my heart today, what mom does that? Then she lied on me to my dad about how I was suppose to care her to the doctor but SHE NEVER TOLD ME TO TAKE HER!!! I honestly hate my life I’m 21 a sophomore in college, being treated like a 12 year old. I want to bring in the New Year but they won’t let me go see him we live 3 hours apart. I hate my life.