need to change my attitude.... maybe

had a miscarriage in may and now our sex life is pretty much non existent....if we want a family we need to bd not do other sexual things that wont help us conceive.... i realize its something different but i feel like timevis ticking away...the miscarriage has really affected me in more ways than I thought would... I gained 20 pounds and as a result I have decided to e

at more healthy and see a therapist to try and help with my feelings and maybe she can help get our sex life back on track. worse part is when 2 people were pregnant with you and they both had healthy pregnancies and you were the only one with a loss..... maybe I'm over reacting but to me if sperm doesn't go inside it's a waste of valuable property.... lol... am I wrong....