should you fiance tell you when he's made plans to do something different or just halfway home when you meeting his friends at your house he pulls a u turn and meets his other friend (our roomate) in a cab to play poker and had you drive the truck home. When you get home and find out he didn't even tell his friends that he wasn't going to be there so you have to. I mean I totally thought that would be a big part in communication. don't get me wrong I care less when he ditches me to play poker just how he did it. tried to tell him I was upset that he didn't tell me anything, and he instead drudges up stuff and throes it in my face.... what should I do, I've had a couple people say couples counselling. (we get married July 14 2018