Would this bother you?

Brittney

I do not have a very good relationship with my MIL but I do my best to put that aside for my daughters sake. I have very different parenting styles than my MIL and she always places these expectations of how often she should get to see her granddaughter and how often she should be babysitting her and that she should be spending the night already without even asking or discussing any of these things with me or my husband. So the last time we went over to their house she was talking about my daughter sleeping over but not asking me if it was ok, mostly just saying it was going to happen. My daughter isn’t even 2 yet and I don’t want her to have any sleepovers until she is at least 4 years old. But she also mentioned that she is setting up a bedroom for her in her house... and all I can think is... why the hell does she need a bedroom here? A play room wouldn’t be a big deal, but she is putting together a full bedroom in her house and I feel like it’s absolutely unnecessary. My daughter does not spend enough time there for her to need a bedroom... does anyone else find that weird or like it oversteps boundaries a bit? What are your thoughts?