I went to the ER with heavy bleeding and passing large clots I was 7w6d. I went to the bathroom in the ER, which looked like a murder scene afterwards. I told a nurse at the station what happened and that I had passes some clots or something and I didn't know if they wanted it. he said he would let my nurse know as she was with someone else. she comes in to do my blood work and asks me what happened in the toilet. I told her I passed something and I didn't really get a good look at it. she looked me straight in the eyes and said, and I quote... "it was PROBABLY a miscarriage. it is okay if you are feeling immense sadness right now"... I wanted to jab her eyes out. thankfully I had not yet had my ultrasound and the baby was still there with a discernable heartbeat. However, sadly this morning I passed several larger clots and the fetal sac. So I did inevitably miscarry. but who is this nurse to tell me I probably miscarried, if she didn't see what was in the toilet. now had she retrieved the fetal sac from the toilet herself I wouldn't be upset. Needless to say but she very quickly removed herself from my care team and a new nurse came in. I do wonder if maybe she just didn't k is how to handle a situation of a possible miscarriage and overstepped. but I had to share. rant over.