idk what to do ??

Question

My boyfriend really likes sex, but he isnt open about wanting things and says sex isn't a priority of his to be happy. 
 I asked what he wants me to do because I just want to like.. blow his mind and make him never want anything else. But when I try to find out what he wants me to do he acts like it doesn't matter to him. I think he's scared of sounding like he just wants sex but I already know that's not the case. how do I get him to open up?

Answer

It’s about trust and allowing him to open up with what he wants when he is comfortable. You could set an example by telling him one of your fantasies or something that drives you wild. That might get him more comfortable. Or he may not know anything besides what you already do and he enjoys the sex as it is. All I have to say is communicate and don’t make fun of things in bed and you guys should be fine. I would not push him either might make him feel pressured.

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tell him what you want! sometimes opening the dialogue makes it a little easier, sometimes in the heat of the moment i like to just whisper to him “tell me what you want me to do” and usually that works! also asking him to guide you or show you can help sometimes too, make it more of an in the moment sexy thing, instead of a sit down conversation. it’s less awkward for both parties that way, imo.

idk what to do ??

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