opinions!!!? Thoughts!!?

Question

I’m 17, almost 18 (next month) and im engaged to my boyfriend 
We’ve been dating for 10 months and I want a baby so bad with him! I’m ready for a family and he told me he wants a baby with me too but in a year or 2
I’m currently on 2 forms of birth control 
Nexplanon (implant) and the pill. 
I wanted to make an appointment and get it taken out after I turn 18.
I’m not sure how to bring it up to him again. 
Thoughts? Opinions?

Answer

Babies are hard you will be more exhausted than you ever thought you would be there will be no going out whenever you want or doing things that you do normally now. Everything changes so if you have things you want to do now I would do it and wait until you guys get married

Answer

I have no advice on the baby but please stop the hormones. It's so bad for you. there's  book you can read called Taking Control of your Fertility and it teaches how to safely avoid pregnancy without the pill by knowing your body. No matter what do you decide, please stop the BC

Answer

My opinion comes from anything but your age. I planned my first baby at 17 and got pregnant at 18. it comes from your history with your partner. wait.  Wait until you know you two can make through the stressful scary stuff Idk what y'all have been through together but after 10 months in gonna be candid. you dont know each other I thought I knew my fiance after that long too but right about the 1 year mark we went through hell. We went through stuff that should've broken us up. it was an uphill climb to stay together.  We've been together for four years. We knew we could make it through the stressful stuff and that's when we decided to have a baby. but that's the other thing. We decided together. you need him on board and obviously if he wants to wait he's not totally on board. Keep the conversation but don't push him into it or he'll resent you for a long time. Keep talking about it but give it time, he'll come around when he's ready.

Answer

My advice would be that you should wait. You are just turning  into an adult and maybe graduated or going to be graduating or will be in a year.  It is very hard to give your baby the best life when you still have to go to school, and then have a job that is hard to support a baby on anyways. your fiance is right I think he wants to get in a better chapter of both of your guys life before bringing  another child in. Now yes it can be done you can have a baby, but I don't  you want your child growing up not having the best life because children are expensive you have to make sure they have diapers, and formula and love and care. And then you will have to take them too a daycare, and that is really expensive  weekly it can cost up to 300$ which is probably  money you do not have. I am not trying to tell you not have one, but go to college get a good paying job, so when you do have a child  you are in good standing.  plus your parents aren't going to raise it, consuming  you still live with them. So yes having baby fever is great, and it is hard not wanting to have a baby when you are feeling this way, but trust  me it passes. For now adopt a small pet, learn for you as a couple to take care of it together. It will help with your baby  fever. Go out and live your life first,  you are just turning  into an adult.  You  plenty of time before having a baby. For now  go to college, and focus on saving up for that and your wedding. Plus 10 months with a guy is not long enough to have a baby together. You are still getting to know hom. I think he made the right call on the baby thing. Just enjoy your life has a new couple and BABY  FREE. It really helps to get married first and then have a baby.  Goodluck

opinions!!!? Thoughts!!?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey