How to love yourself more

Hi all, I’ve been going through the hardest self love journey. I am my worst enemy and I make things so much harder for myself than things need to be. I have no self confidence...I don’t like myself, end of story. I’m not sure what hurt me or caused me to dislike myself, I know it has not always been this way. I want to change this. 2018 will be the year I will not only be okay with myself, but I will love myself. Do any of you have any tips or books or just anything to help a girl out? I want this for myself, but also because it directly influences my relationship and I want to be happy with myself.