Alright, well im going to try to make this as short as possible. my bf has a older brother. hes older by a year than my bf. me and my bf have a one year old son and his brother just had a daughter about 4 months ago. i love his daughter! shes the most precious little girl and i want them (my son and his daughter) to grow up together and all. sooooo heres the thing my boyfriend's brother is always asking my bf for favors. to help him with this and that. and its at the time that HE wants to do things. he doesnt take into consideration that my bf works all the time and we hardly get to be with him. also when he invites my bf to do something he likes to cancel last min or if he doesnt cancel he just doesnt show up.point is things always have to be done how and when he wants them. im tired of him taking my bf from us, of always asking him to do things. of him not being considerate. its just ongoing problems with him. i confronted my bf about it, and he has nothing to say hes just like hes my brother. and im just like i kmow but you always put him above us, and you always have to be available when he needs you when he doesnt do the same for you. and now me and my bf are fighting because of him. it sucks, but i just dont know what to do. im so over this shit.