He’s a bad dad!

Okay so long story about my SO’s ex partner. Long story...

Okay so my SO was with his X for 5 1/2 years and they have a 4 year old boy together! When she fell pregnant he wanted to leave her and told him she was on BC then as he went to leave said she was pregnant..

Obviously, he stayed and supported her but when the baby was 6 months old she wanted another baby! My SO told her no as he wasn’t ready, she was 17 and he was 21. Anyway she wanted to move house so my SO went away to work for 3 months to get her the money so she could be happy but as he was away she took out credit cards, phone contracts and bought pets out of his money without consulting him!

So when my SO came back he moved her house and then a month later she announced she was pregnant to which my SO was excited as there was nothing he could do and said “great another baby” and then her reply was “yeah. It’s not yours”

Then she ran away for 6 weeks with this new boyfriend (whom she’d been seeing since giving birth to their baby) and left my SO to raise their little boy and juggle a job as she didn’t work and they had no money saved! Bearing in mind all of his family lives 5 hours away so he had no support!! Then she came back and moved her new boyfriend into the house with my SO and their son and my SO had no where to go.

Anyway when he moved out a week later she completely stopped him from seeing the little boy and blocked him on EVRYTHING and his number and said “if you want to see your son. E-mail me” so he did he emailed her.

Anyway fast forward to when I met him. I knew he had a son who he couldn’t see and when his X knew he had a new partner she suddenly got into contact with him saying he needs to step

Up and see his son but I was allowed no where near him for 6 months, understandable. Then the day after she told him to come and see their son which I drove him up the 50 mile drive and was willing to wait in the car but she invited me in! I made conversation because no beef!!

Then she said “you can have him overnight and you’re only allowed to see you son if you’re with her” on about me. This is where shit gets real! Why can’t he see his son alone? Why do I need to be there?! I was there thinking oh shit is he abusive, but she explained he wasn’t she just didn’t want him to have the baby alone. She just wanted to belittle me and have me around always saying things like “Oh remember when WE did this or that”. Odd I know. Anyway not only did she want us to look after the little boy she wanted us to look after the child she’d cheated on him with but also her new partners 8 year old son!

A lot of stuff happened and then 2 weeks later she asked us to drive the 50 miles to look after his son and the 8year old because their was something wrong with the baby, of course I said yes as I wouldn’t want the baby to die but when I asked where the dad of the 8 year old (also the father of her younger daughter) she said “he can’t babysit because he’s playing on the PLAY STATION” I said NO right then and there as I wasn’t letting my SO being walked all over! If the dad was working fair enough but neither of them work and he was just playing a game!

We had my SO’s son for a night every week then one week we didn’t have him for a week and a half as we were moving and wanted to get everything ready for him and we informed her and she said that it was okay but then after a week and a half she said we can’t see him as it’s been too long and he won’t know who we are.....

She stopped talking to us for ages then rang me WHILST I WAS IN WORK! And was shouting at me! I gave her a mouthful and hung up!

That was 6 months ago and we haven’t seen any of them since 😵