Men..

I don’t get how men think.😒 like why is it the women’s job to do EVERYTHING while you sit on your ass? Why is it so hard for you to take care of your child while your wife is doing house chores, etc.

Me and my SO live in my moms house with my family. And even they’re starting to notice how little he does to help me.

Me and my son are finally getting over being sick. When I was sick I didn’t feel good at all and just wanted to relax and not do anything. I would ask him to make me and our son something to eat while we rest and he would say no. I told him I hope you get sick, cause next time you’re sick I’m not doing anything for you cause you can’t do anything for me.

I still got up with our son every morning like normal even though I felt like shit.

My family even notices that when he’s left to watch our son he just throws him in his crib while he plays video games.

That’s literally what he does. Just puts him in his crib and lets him cry.

And when I wanna rest and sleep in some mornings I’ll ask him to get up with him in the morning. I even emphasize that get up with him means GET UP, change his diaper, make him breakfast and entertain him. Like I do every morning. No. That’s not what he does. He sits him in front of the tv in his high chair, SOAKED DIAPER and all, with some cereal and lays down and goes back to sleep. And I end up having to get up anyway because I know damn well he didn’t change his diaper and I’m not gonna leave my baby in a soaked diaper.

Sorry just needed to rant.😞 I guess as a mother with the natural motherly instincts, I don’t get how a man can ignore their child or be so careless and selfish.😕 and I try to talk to him about it and his answer is always, “I work. I bring in the money to take care of y’all” sometimes I feel like telling him to grow up and act like an adult/parent.