Keep or no

If you and your SO are having a hard time coming to a agreement. I want to keep the baby but he is scared & afraid that what if he is a bad father. He said no matter what he is sticking by my choice. He asked if we could wait a couple years & try. Btw this was not a planned pregnancy. I was on birth control and everything to prevent this but my medication interfered with the birth control & this surprise happened. I was so much in shock that I had to go to the doctor to see what went wrong and that's when she told me. Aha

Also he just graduated from college & does have a good job, I'm still in college & have about 2 more years left. I don't want to give it up but I also want to understand his thoughts & not be selfish.

I know everyone says it's the woman's choice but I also want to put into play of my SO thoughts also because this was a surprise & wasn't planned & his thoughts do matter to me in just so conflicted.

We have been together for 4 years 5 coming in July & we have talked about marriage & kids so it's not like this hasn't been talked about, we just didn't think it would be happening right now at this time. We also are best friends and rarely fight, the only fear I have about having this child is to start not getting along because I've heard that having a child can cause that.

Should we have it & become parents?