Should I just wait ..?

Question

Hi everyone . My name is Joni . I’m 15 , and my boyfriend and I have been together for two months .
Now I know sex at my age is a little overwhelming , and we plan to wait for about another year at least ; but should I be scared when it does happen ? What if sex causes us to act different around each other at school ? What if his parents or my parents find out ? What if the condom breaks ? I really need some advice .. because we may have another conversation about sex in the future , and I want to know what to say .. 😬

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I think it's way too soon for you to be worrying about that. See if you even stay together first.

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Wait wait wait baby girl. There is no rush. Don't let anyone pressure you. Sex is a big deal.

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Think about it this way. You’ve been together for 8 weeks. Way too early.

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Thanks everyone bunches !! Everyone is telling me to wait , which BELIEVE ME , we are ! He says he won’t pressure me into anything because he doesn’t want to lose me , and that made me feel secure and comfortable with him . He understands , and we agreed to wait for a few years at least ! Again , thanks everyone !! ❤️

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Hi!
I had sex for the first time at 15, so here goes what I learned:
-Sex will happen when it does, at some point it will feel natural and you guys will do it.
-Talking to your and his parents may be a good idea, they may be more open than you expect and give you lots of advice. On the other hand, they can tell you to just don't do it, as it's dangerous and you may get pregnant, diseases, etc. So that's for you guys to know.
-'What if the condom breaks?' well, there  is the morning-after pill or you could consider using another form of birth control. Not sure about the laws where you live, but you may be able to talk to a doctor about that without having to inform your parents but, again, your parents may be the best people to talk about that.

Should I just wait ..?

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