When you got pregnant, were you actively TTC (trying to conceive)?

I’m sure you have heard this idea....

That when you aren’t worried or stressed about it -THAT’S when you conceive. (Which I suppose would account for totally accidental pregnancies too!)

This was true for me both times- the first time, I conceived the month I mentally I gave up trying.

The second time, I conceived the very first month. I was calling that month our “practice round” - because I just assumed it would take me a long time again!

My friend says this is crazy and not true at all. There’s no mental impact on when you conceive.

So...... was it true in your own case?

Did you get pregnant when you had given up or weren’t trying at all?