I was snooping and....

So there my fiancé’s phone sat, on the armrest of the couch as he was asleep in the chair next to me.

Background - we had a rocky start b/c he couldn’t figure out who he wanted to be with so he was sleeping with both of us off and on (and obviously lying about it). I blocked him from my life - a month or so later, he showed up on my doorstep with a giant arrangement of flowers, a song written by him and saying he knows he is going to marry me someday, even if I didn’t believe it at the time. 8 months later we were engaged, and our wedding is coming up in May. We will have been together for 2 years in March - have known each other for 6 years.

....BACK TO SNOOPING....

I found an email on his phone from May of 2016 (1.5 months after getting back together and him saying he is going to marry me!!) replying to a Craigslist add to have his cock sucked at a resort about 30 minutes from a our home!!!!

😳😩😑😭🤬😣🤥🤮

WHAT DO I DO?! I love him and am in love with him, and truly believe he is the man I am to be with. He makes me a better, stronger person in both life and my faith.

Also, I went to the length of getting into his email on MY phone and screenshooting a picture so he doesn’t blow up about me looking through his phone - on an avg day me looking through his pictures or something doesn’t bother him....however me looking back 2 years into his email, I feel that will be a different story.

We are also business partners and are constructing a retail store, etc...bottom line, I’m legally bound by debt with him at the moment.

AGAIN- what do I do?! Do I bring it up by prefacing with “I know you’re going to be mad because that’s how you are when you’re being defensive, but....”

Flat out say “I know you cheated. Whether the act was done or not, replying to this post was cheating.” Slide phone to him with screenshot*

Not say anything at all?! I didn’t see anything to indicate cheating since then.

Someone please help me think through this! I know some of you will say “leave him”, but as I said before, I love and am in love with him. I truly feel we are meant to be together.