can a relationship be “perfect” without anything actually being wrong?

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ADVICE PLEASE
my current relationship feels so-so great. everything seems to be going very well and perfect.
 but i’ve seen a lot of posts and articles about “perfect” relationships actually having something wrong with them (not telling eachother everything/hiding things, not communicating enough) so that makes me feel like, what if somethings wrong with mine? 
 
 my boyfriend and i are long-distance, living in different countries. we communicate a lot, talking like 60% of the day and calling quite often + falling asleep on skype etc. we’ve so far met up every month now (been together for almost 5 months, known eachother for 5 years)
 we do sometimes debate over random things, but never fight and always end everything on a friendly note. 
is it actually possible to have a perfect relationship? what do you think? what could be wrong with mine (if there is anything wrong)

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I would say since your relationship is long distance and ur not living together it is very possible to have a perfect relationship

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Relationships sometimes get harder when you live together because you might not get much time to yourself, or you might find things that your partner does that annoy you. In my opinion it's a lot easier to have a "perfect" relationship when it's long distance (coming from someone who lives with partner February till November and apart over winter.)

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My man and I haven't had a big fight since we've been together (2 years), just small arguments. It's pretty close to perfect. If (but most likely when) we do have a big one I expect we can handle it because of how we communicate and treat each other.

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Rather than striving for perfection, my goals are healthy and functional. My husband makes me laugh every day, he makes me feel loved every day, and he makes me glad I married him every day. We support each other and resolve issues when they come up. 
But we still argue and there are plenty of reasons I could feel like he’s not the perfect man. The dude’s in a wheelchair a lot after all! But he’s still the best soul I know so I choose to work with the other stuff for the sake of everything I have.

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I think nearly all relationships go through stages where it’s perfect. Right now, my partner and I are in a great spot and things seem perfect, but who knows, in a week it may not be this perfect. Being long distance too helps with things being “perfect” despite being far away. 
Just out of curiosity, where are you living and where is your SO? ☺️

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i answered “depends” bc no relationship is an 100% perfect. mine is pretty great too. we have never been on a fight and we are really honest and caring. but i wouldn’t say it’s perfect. maybe you think yours is bc it’s the beginning and also bc it’s long distance so u don’t get to see one another too often. time will tell! good luck

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the question isn't "can you have a perfect relationshop", rather the question is "what is your definition of the perfect relationship" my husband and eye don't always agree. sometimes we get on each other's nerves, but we don't hold grudges, we always try to understand the other partners position, give the benefit of the doubt, and let sleeping dogs lie. we have days we joke and giggle and flirt, and days in a crouch and he just keeps to himself. I think our marriage is beautiful and healthy and honestly would not change a thing about it, so of that's perfect, then yeah, I guess it's possible! but the thing you should NEVER EVER Do, is LOOK for problems. enjoy what you have, focus on the good, and God Willing it'll all turn out in the end.

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You guys are still in the honeymoon phase, so yes, it’s totally normal to be “perfect”. Things get a bit more complicated when you move in together or go through more complicated scenarios. In general, I don’t trust people when they say their relationship is perfect because it lacks a bit of “real-ness”. But my husband and I had little to no bumps in the road until a year or two.

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It depends on what you think perfect is. I personally wouldn’t say your relationship is perfect because you don’t see each other often (I need physical affection in relationships) but if that isn’t a problem the relationship could be perfect to you.

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been there too. distance hasn't been an issue but our relationship sould have been perfect without it.

can a relationship be “perfect” without anything actually being wrong?

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