My boyfriend and I are both 19. We have been together for 3 1/2 months, or so. We are both virgins.

I am terribly shy/awkward when it comes to anything sexual. He is the first person I have ever been with, at all. He’s been my first everything, so far. We have recently progressed to him eating me out (like 3 times) and I have given him a hand job (twice). He has hinted around several times about wanting a blowjob, but I am just not comfortable with that yet. He’s been nothing but patient and understanding about my apprehension of doing things (sexually) and I just don’t want to give him the wrong idea. It’s not that I don’t want him, I’m just not ready to go there yet.

How do I approach this subject delicately, and not come off sounding like a bitch who doesn’t wanna do something for my man?