Angry at 13 week old

Whenever my baby screams and cant be soothed i feel so angry i cant take it, i even yell at her and then i feel so guilty after. I know it is bad and i need to change. I just wanted to know if their were other mommies out there that feel this way too. Therapy has not worked, taking a break doesn't help either because just like clockwork when she starts screaming on the top of her lungs i feel so angry and sick to my stomach. I cry about this all the time, my husband is no help he just looks at me like whats wrong? Like I'm crazy. I read somewhere that for a mommy hearing her baby scream is like painful in the brain and thats what it feels like 😭😣😞😬