Move on or wait? I need some advice
So I met this guy through a dating app about 6 weeks ago. I’ve never had sex on a first date, but I did with this one. It just happened and I really like him still.
We had lots of sex and went out to bars etc. many time, but he doesn’t really suggest “dates”. He’d mostly want ‘Netflix and chill’, and sometimes it really is just that and no sex (although we also have lots of sex). For the past week or so I realized that I’m the only one who texts first or wants to hang out. He’d still hang out with me when I ask him to, but he doesn’t really text me first or plan things together.
So I brought it up last night asking if he feels that I’m expecting too much when he just wants to keep things casual (I didn’t necessarily ask for a girlfriend boyfriend relationship), he said that he needs long time to make commitments and that there are things he does that make me unhappy (like he hates PDA - even just a small kiss, or that he is not affectionate enough). He didn’t say anything about things I do that he dislikes, but I think there are some, too. I feel like this is not a matter of time but he’s just not so much into me.
I really like him and wanna wait if there’s a chance that he falls for me, but the chance looks very slim. Should I move on and find someone who would love me or should I wait and show him how much I like him?
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